Cheryl & I both enjoyed the session very much.

My focus has historically been overwhelmingly focused on my physicality, orgasm orientated mine & my partners.

I have struggled with my mental state (PTSD) & struggled with being present.

I have been unable to move past or have been unaware of some of my pre determined assumptions / expectations.

I have in the past had some experience with sexual tantric practise (early 20's) but had not brought them into my current 40 year long marriage.

This & a previous workshop hss allowed Cheryl & I to communicate more freely openly & make this communication a priority as we continue to make our relationship a priority. Above & beyond everything else in our lives other than caring for ourselves as individuals.

Individuals who each have sexual needs not just desires. Needs that we have a right to fullfill without shame or limitations as long as by doing so we do not bring harm to others. Sexual needs that we choose to explore develop and fullfill together & alone. A need that when fullfilled will benefit every aspect of our lifes our relationship and relationships with those close to both of us.

Thankyou for the guidance, encouragement and support.

Shane Durance

For me & I think my partner, Elisa's 1st point was the cornerstone issue. Learn to talk openly about a topic with those important to you, about a subject silenced by shame, misinfomation, lies & social predjices & norms, that are not only not helpfull, but harmfull.

It is opening the conversation that this session helped facilitate. This gives us, as a couple, the opportunity to learn in more detail & experience all the benefits of the other aspects touched on by Elisa.

My wife & I are coming out of a 10 year period of total abstinance. For too many reasons not relevent to this review.

This open and frank discussion along with some practical hints & homework. I anticipate, offer a kick start to us unlearning, relearning, experimenting and growing in ways together, that will allow us to re gain a healthy mutually satifying sex life as we move into our 60's.

I was keen and encouraged my wife to share this session with me as we are experiencing very different levels of desire. I was hoping to learn more about how best to ensure my partners experience was pleasurable. I think I did.

I also think the session gave my partner a framework that will make it easier for her too not only help me learn who to best pleasure her. But how she can learn more about her capacity to enjoy intimate pleasure. Not only with me but also alone

I find it easier and am far more motivated to talk about these issues than my partner.

In particular having a conversation about how I can best offer her a pleasurable experience has been challenging.

Tonights session created an opportunity to both learn & share our thoughts, fears, desires & emotions on this a critical contributor to the health & strength of our relationship. As well as our physical, emotional, spritual & psychological health.

Thankyou

Could I also ask you forward the link to the upcoming program discussed at the end. I missed the details and couldnt see them on Elis's instagram feed.

Thanks again

Shane Durance